Sunday, March 29, 2015

#NigeriaDecides2015; Are Women Against Their Kind?




The number of Nigerian women actively engaged in politics keeps increasing. Active participation by such amazons means better representation for women. However, it may be years before Nigerians – men and even women- would trust women vying for political offices enough to vote them into power.

Nigerians went to the polls yesterday, March 28, 2015, to elect who would lead and legislate for Africa’s most populous black nation for the next four years.

In one of the most highly contested presidential elections since the nation embraced democracy, again, in 1999, the presidential contest pitches the incumbent, President Jonathan Goodluck of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) against a retired general, General Muhammadu Buhari of the All Progressives Congress (APC).

Although the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has extended the elections for another day, there is a general sense of optimism in the continued fairness and transparency with which the elections are being conducted. And, that is a good thing given the unnecessary tension in the run-up to the election.

In Lagos, the nation’s economic capital, Festac Town precisely, where I registered to vote, the election was peaceful, fair and transparent.

The polling booths of the three units I monitored were fairly accessible to Persons with Disabilities (PWDs). Security personnel’s, although sparse, could be seen observing the proceedings.
Officials of INEC arrived at about 9:00am bearing accreditation as well as voting materials.

Of the 734 persons registered to vote at the polling booth where I registered, only 230 were accredited, 8 persons had minor issues were asked to fill out incident forms before they were allowed to cast their votes, totalling 238 persons who voted.
 
There was a lot of excitement as voting officially commenced. Akamu Rama Mohammed, a visually impaired senior citizen was accompanied to the polling booth and assisted by his son in casting his votes. He said, “I am excited about this election and being allowed to vote. Four years ago, I voted by myself because I could still see, I was worried they would not allow me vote this time because I brought my son to help me.”

Speaking on his hopes on the outcome of the elections, he continues “The doctors say I have cataract and I need to operate it so that I can see again. I do not have the money. I pray the outcome of this election provides free medical services so that I can see again.”

Women Showed Up In Their Throngs

Very prominent amongst the electorate here were women of all ages.

Not only did they arrive promptly at about 8:00am for their accreditation, they stayed to vote and waited until their votes were counted at about 7:00pm before leaving the polling unit.

Helen, an 18 year old girl who voted for the first time yesterday was all smiles. “I feel important, I feel powerful. I have a say in my future. I am seeking admission into the university; I came out to vote because I do not want to experience ASUU strike when I get into the university.”

Election Results

The ruling party, PDP got 127 votes; the major opposition party, APC got 87 votes while Kowa party, the only political party with a woman running for the office of the president received just 2 votes in the presidential polls.

 
12 women and 8 men whom I chose randomly to interview all expressed their respect and admiration for Prof. Remi Sonaiya, the KOWA Party’s presidential candidate, although they did not vote for her. When I asked them why they did not vote for her, the men’s responses were similar “How can a woman say she wants to lead a country? What does that turn her husband and men into?”

The women said they did not trust her with such responsibility even though she seems capable. One reported “Something is just wrong with the picture… a woman ruling a nation.”

Women’s Bias Towards Women In Politics

Women, not trusting other woman whom they hitherto agreed has all the right qualities of a good leader with the task of leading a nation, may be a reflection of women’s views and attitudes towards themselves, and how, over the years, they have internalized the ideas of patriarchy.

By preferring to settle, to fit in, not rattling the status quo and by allowing men lead even when, after careful consideration, they believe themselves and/or other women capable of leading, women are denying the divinity of the feminine.

Going further to make comments such as ‘something is just wrong with the picture...’ goes to show how years of gender inequality, subjugation and suppression has recruited more women into the patriarchal clan and notion of leadership.

What else could be right with the picture?
 
A society with entrenched patriarchy leading it would only crumble; women and men should uplift competent women where is qualified to lead. Women are not unequal to men.

Friday, March 27, 2015

#NigeriaDecides2015; My Message to Nigerians


 
Nigerians, home and abroad. What a significant time in the trajectory of our young democracy this is.


We are at a defining moment in our democracy and we all - present in this time have the privilege of playing a role in shaping our nations destiny.


I was discussing with a colleague earlier and he said “Nigeria is preparing for her first democratic elections…” and I could not agree more.


The last few months have showed us a glimpse of what a true democracy could be, should be. Though we are many years away from upholding the tenets of a true democracy, there is no gainsaying that we are in the right direction.


Political office aspirants have been busy, rigorously canvassing for our votes, persuading us to trust their promises, making us feel and believe that for the first time, our votes will count.



This feeling has being empowering.



 

In a few hours, the presidential polls will open, paving the way for all of us, eligible voters to chart the course of our future. We have that much power at our disposal, and I suggest we use it very wisely.



“…there is only one team in this ‘game’ and it is ‘#TeamNigeria.”


 

As we go to the polls to exercise our constitutional right and civic duty, let us think unity and oneness of purpose.



Let us bear in mind that there is only one team in this ‘game’ and it is ‘#TeamNigeria.



Let us think carefully before making insidious and inflammatory comments that may insight others to violence, let us think about the common space that we share, this space that holds us all together – Nigeria.



Let us remember that a true democracy neither begins at the polls nor does it end at the polling booth, it is a continuous process. We must defend and protect our votes, and even after the winners have being declared, we must remember and be prepared to hold them accountable for their actions and/or inactions.



Let us hunger alone for a taste of justice and truth.




It is my utmost wish that the outcome of this election bring peace, progress and prosperity to all Nigeria and all Nigerians.



May God Bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.



Nigeria... Good People, Great Nation.

Sunday, March 08, 2015

International Women's Day 2015. ASHA Advocates for Girls Rights to Education.

International Women's Day 2015. ASHA Advocates for Girls Rights to Education
March 8, 2015

“…there shall be no bridging the gender equity gap if women are still being bullied or brow beaten into dropping out of school for their brothers neither can we attain gender equality if women and girls seeking education become victims to reprisals.“ Vweta Chadwick
 
Education for girls and women is still considered a tall order in some parts of the world. Despite interventions designed to tackle this, many, especially those living in poor and war/violence stricken countries and communities still lack access to basic education.
 
In Ajegunle, for example,a community where Project ASHA’s Empowering Women of the Future (EWOF) project has worked with women and girls for the last three years, girls right to education is still considered a luxury by many. Some parents consider it ‘bad investment’ to send their girls to school up to the secondary level let alone the tertiary, preferring to pay the fees of their brothers, in their words “She will marry and be another man’s property.”
 
Read the full story on Project ASHA's website.

Tuesday, March 03, 2015

Women and Girls Online: Mitigating Risk of Grooming and Abuse.

ASHA Empowerment and Development Initiative organized a one day workshop in Ajegunle on 28 February to train women and girls on safety and security concerns online.
 
Facilitators at this workshop were: Barr Titi Akosa, Executive Director, Centre for 21 Century Issues; Mrs Emmanuella Akinola, Director of Media and Publicity, Disability Policy Advocacy Initiative and Ms. Vweta Chadwick, Global Programmes Director, ASHA Empowerment and Development Initiative.
 

Sunday, March 01, 2015

In Solidarity with the Chibok Girls


 
 
On April 14 2014, almost 300 Nigerian schoolgirls were abducted from their school dormitory in the middle of the night. There has been reports of subsequent abductions of girls and women in North Eastern Nigeria as a form of deterrent to girls education.


These crimes against humanity, against women has not left the world in general and Nigerians in particular, unscarred. As concerned global citizens we refuse to accept this as the norm, as a way of life whether in Africa, or in Asia or even the Americas. Unhindered access to education is a right that every woman and girl should enjoy without fear of reprisal.


When words fail, as they do at times like these, we find other mediums to express our outrage, our pains, our hopes.
 
Read the full press release here.
 
Watch the video on ASHA TV

Friday, October 17, 2014

Week of Action against Domestic Violence in Lagos State: Day 5 – Community Outreach at Isale Eko Local Government Council, Adeniji Adele, Lagos Island


A large crowd of women and men gathered this morning at the Local Government Council where they were sensitized on Domestic violence.

Interpreters were engaged throughout the sessions, as many of those in attendance did not understand English.

 

This community outreach was led by the Chairperson of LASGAT, Dr Keziah Awoshika and the State coordinator, Barr Titilope Akosa.

 

You can view the pictures using #AADV #LASGAT or by visiting the LASGAT facebook page.

Week of Action Against Domestic Violence in Lagos – Day 4. Outreach to Cairo Market, Mosafejo Market and Oshodi Garage


Gender activists led by Barr Titilope Akosa went on an outreach to Cairo and Mosafejo market and the Oshodi motor garage yesterday the 16th of October 2014.


The three Iya ojas (women leaders) of the markets were a part of these outreaches and participated in the distribution of fliers and stickers and the dissemination of information on Domestic Violence.

 

You can view the pictures using these hashtage #AADV #LASGAT

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Week of Action against Domestic Violence in Lagos State: Day 3 – Community Outreach at the Anthony Sport Stadium, Kosofe Local Government, Lagos.


It was another successful day as the LASGAT team sensitized the community members of Kosofe Local Government on domestic violence, prevention and early warning signs. Correct information about family support Police Stations, centres and organizations providing support and counselling were disseminated.

 

Some of those in attendance were the Iya Oja of Anthony Village – Chief Alhaja BB Balogun; a two time Counsellor of the Kosofe Local government who represented the Chairman; indigenous women and men from the Yoruba, Fulani, Hausa and Ibo ethnic groups and young persons.

Interpreters were engaged, as many of those in attendance did not understand English.

 

You can view the pictures using #AADV #LASGAT

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Week of Action against Domestic Violence in Lagos State: Day 2 – Advocacy Visit to the Iyaloja General of Lagos State, Chief Mrs Folashade Tinubu-Ojo.


“We would not have successfully sensitized Lagosians about Domestic Violence if we have not engaged market Women.” Vweta Chadwick, Global Programme Director, ASHA Initiative.

 The Chairperson of the Lagos State Gender Advocacy Team (LASGAT) Dr Keziah Awoshika and the State Coordinator Barr Titilope Akosa led Gender Activists to the Office of the Iyaloja General (the leader of all market women in Lagos) today, to seek her support in sensitizing market women across the state on domestic and gender based violence.


Chief Tinubu-Ojo received the LASGAT team and pledged her commitment to provide any assistance and support required to get this very important message across.

The visit culminated in the presentation of the Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Directory, Campaign stickers and other IEC materials to the Iyaloja.

View the pictures using #AADV #LASGAT

Lagos State Gender Advocacy Team (LASGAT) Declares Oct 13 – 17 Week of Action against Gender Based Violence



Lagos State no doubt has proved through its people centred laws and projects, that it has the wellbeing of the most vulnerable people among us, namely: women, girls, persons with disabilities at heart. Many of whom suffer gender based violence in the hands of their caregivers. However, there is room for more.


In a press statement issued by the Lagos State Coordinator of LASGAT, Barr. Titilope Akosa, at a media briefing to officially kick start the week, she commended the state government for enacting the Domestic Violence Law in 2007. Continuing, she stated that this law does not fully criminalize domestic violence in absolute terms.

She encouraged all to not loose sight of the significance of this week as it coincides with the celebration of the International Day of the Girl Child with the theme “Ending the Circle of Violence against the Girl Child.

Barr Akosa called on the state to protect the rights of citizens to life and bodily integrity and to ensure that their rights are not violated by stepping up action to strengthen the enforcement of domestic violence law with the following recommendations:

  • Adopting and passing into law the sexual offences bill which is currently before the National Assembly;
  • Gathering data to enable the quantification of the economic and non-economic cost of domestic violence in the state to enable budgetary allocation needed to fight the scourge;
  • Developing policy guidelines that will ensure zero tolerance for trivializing the offences and letting perpetrators go free;
  • Giving legal backing to the week of action against domestic violence as an annual event to be celebrated throughout Lagos.

In her closing remarks, she called on the Nigerian government to ensure the safe return of the Chibok Girls as soon as possible.

 
This program is organized by the Lagos State Gender Advocacy Team (LASGAT) with support from DFID/SAVI, the Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation (WAPA), Office of the Attorney General of Lagos State, Office of the Public Defender, SOS Children Village, Save the Children, Centre for 21st Century Issues, ASHA Initiative and many others.

You can follow this event online via Facebook, and by following the #AADV, #LASGAT.

Monday, December 23, 2013

Every girl needs a Shero

"The problem with our system of formal education is that very little consideration if any is given at all to out of school teenage girls. Technology makes it possible for education to come to them – no matter where they are, at a farm, in their shops, in their backyards or while nursing their new born.

 
Social media can be a neutral player when used correctly, out of school teenage girls can get information and learn in an inclusive environment where they are not labeled or made fun of, or dropping out or bullied into conformity."


Every girl needs a Shero

Offer: Applications Now Open for the 2014 class of the Carrington Youth Fellowship Initiative | World Pulse

The Carrington Youth Fellowship Initiative, an initiative of the U.S Consulate in Lagos, Nigeria, fondly called CYFI is now accepting applications from youths currently based in Lagos, for the 2014 fellowship class.

This fellowship provides funding, mentorship and networking for inovative Nigerian youths passionate about bringing about change in their communities.


Application closes on the 3rd of January 2014.



Offer: Applications Now Open for the 2014 class of the Carrington Youth Fellowship Initiative | World Pulse

Climate Change and People With Disabilities (PWDs): Awareness, Vulnerability, Adaptation | World Pulse

"Even though it falls under the purview of the Lagos State Emergency Management Agency (LASEMA), to ensure the safety and protection of PWDs during emergencies, no one could give me the figure for the number of PWDs who were successfully rescued/evacuated or who have lost their lives during recent flooding in the State. This reflects the dearth of adequate record keeping at the very least and non-performance on the part of this agency towards ensuring the safety of PWDs."


Climate Change and People With Disabilities (PWDs): Awareness, Vulnerability, Adaptation | World Pulse

Education of the Differently Abled Girl-child: To What End? | World Pulse


"When we educate differently abled girls, we probably are not doing it, so as to enable them become the next CEO or ED of a multinational company, but we are first and foremost guaranteeing them their basic, inalienable rights as humans and we are helping them reaffirm their worth and build their confidence in themselves and their capabilities which are limitless"



Education of the Differently Abled Girl-child: To What End? | World Pulse

Bose Speaks in Death | World Pulse

"*Bose allowed me record our interview for two reasons:
• She needed help urgently and she wanted me to share her voice with anyone who might be able to;
• She wanted other women to learn from her life story, so that they do not to fall victims of the same fate as she did.

In the interview, she tells a story of how her husband made her leave her well paying job immediately after he got a job; how he made her have three abortions while he was making babies with another woman; and how she could no longer have children of her own because of the abortions she’s had."


Bose Speaks in Death | World Pulse

We were trafficked. Now we are illegal migrants | World Pulse

As a peer educator on Illegal Migration Awareness and Alternatives to Violence with the Prisoners Rehabilitation and Welfare Action (PRAWA) a non-governmental organization based in Nigeria, I have had the opportunity of speaking with survivors of child trafficking and illegal migration.
The stories of three young women have remained with me for over a year now.
*Christy was 12 when an aunt visited her hometown, Benin City from Spain. The aunt who was very impressed with the way she looked and how she has developed physically expressed her interest in returning abroad with her, promising to adopt her upon her arrival.
Christy was excited; finally, she would fly in an aeroplane, meet a Caucasian man and have children with long silky hair. Her parents were beside themselves with joy. Christy could finally bring them all out of poverty going back five generations and take her other siblings to Europe too.
As per the aunts request, Christy would live with other girls about the same age as she was with an agent in Lagos for a certain amount of time. She will be ‘polished’ and socialized into behaving, speaking and dressing to fit the profile of a European girl. She would not have contact with her parents or anyone from home; this was necessary to prepare her for a life of focus and independence abroad.
When it came time for them to depart Lagos, they did not leave by aeroplane. Instead, they used back roads to neighbouring countries and waited in makeshift tents till night fall to cross international borders. Exposed to the elements, hungry, thirsty, she just wanted to go back home to her family, but there was no going back.
Six months into their journey, their guardians and escorts – six men announced to the 12 of them, the need to ‘begin practicing’ the trade they would be doing in Europe. They were subsequently gang raped night after another night."



We were trafficked. Now we are illegal migrants | World Pulse

The ALUU Four: Its Higher Significance


Just over a year ago, four young men in their late teens and early twenties, all students of the University of Port Harcourt, were brutally murdered in a community called Aluu in Port Harcourt, Nigeria following an allegation of robbery. Barely a few days afterwards, the internet and social media platforms were inundated with videos and pictures of their murder. Once the Police had established that these young men in their prime were no robbers, a public outrage for justice followed. They were ordinary students who happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.


On reflection, it appeared that most of the outrage was not as a result of the horrific way they were lynched and set ablaze by an angry mob, it was actually because they were in fact ‘four innocent young students’ who were wrongfully “convicted” by jungle justice and “summarily executed” by an angry mob. The truth is, countless number of young men whose name we may never learn have been victims of this same fate for offences ranging from alleged stealing of soft drinks or money to sexual assault. And despite the mass outrage, many more men have been murdered the same way since the Aluu Four tragedy.


Even more gut wrenching are videos of young women being stripped naked and subjected to the most humiliating and inhuman treatment because they allegedly stole a blackberry phone or were ‘indecently’ dressed. Some of the videos feature voices of members of the crowd saying things like “that serves them right! They should know better than steal next time.” And sadly we hear of ‘Curative’ rape for lesbian women and most times the perpetrators are never caught or prosecuted even when in some cases their faces and voices were captured on camera.


Nelson Mandela once said that “The true character of a society is revealed in how it treats its children [youths].” The Nigerian government indifference to the barbaric treatment of its young people is symptomatic of its true character – ‘it does not care’. The government has ensured young Nigerians stay hungry, jobless, out of school and ultimately idle and unthinking. Young people feel vulnerable, disempowered and systematically brainwashed into believing that they will never be good enough to take on positions of authority as youths.


While the young Nigerians waste away, filled with anger and frustration; leadership continue to rests on the tired and corrupt shoulders of people old enough to be our grandfathers and grandmothers, and tired enough to be retired and out of office. Yet they stay on; yet they squander our future wealth, energy and resources. Young Nigerians are now so morally desensitized, mentally numb and intellectually bankrupt that if they were ever called for jury service, to preside over a case in a mob court, of their fellow youths, the accused, stand no chance. The only sentence to be handed down is death, carried out in the most gruesome fashion, with ‘No appeal’! Young Nigerians have lost faith in the Nigerian judicial system – because the courts never seem to deliver ‘proper’ justice. After all, many corrupt officials are let off with a slap on their wrist for embezzling billions of dollars. 


If we have learnt anything from the ALUU four, it is that we must channel our anger towards the right causes and people. Those who would rather have us kill ourselves so they can continue their maleficent looting. For change to occur, the Nigerian youth must personalize this tragedy, because each of them can potentially suffer the same fate. They should pause, think, think and think some more. It could be me today, you tomorrow or a young woman/man whose only crime was being a Nigerian in the midst of an angry Nigerian mob.


It is not about not being in the wrong company, it is not about having a good reputation always. It is that if at anytime, our reputation or moral character is ever called into question, we will never get a fair trial amongst our peers - our jurors, our spectators; our executioners!


But all said and done, I still have faith and explicit trust in my peers – the Nigerian youth- that they have the abilities and capabilities, not only to turn around the tide of anger, violence and jungle justice but also to join hands in building the Nigeria we wish for ourselves and our children. We can save ourselves today and transform tomorrow for the next generation: A corruption free Nigeria – one where the judicial system is highly revered and respected and one where rule of law reigns and respect for lives and human rights is the hallmark of daily coexistence; yes A Nigeria where young people of all backgrounds are celebrated and enabled to be active participants in democracy and governance at all levels. 

That’s my dream.

God Bless Nigeria!

Sunday, November 17, 2013

InCLUDEus!


A short documentary that highlights one of the very many and avoidable challenges People With Disabilities (PWDs) in Nigeria face when accessing public facilities.
In this video, I follow my friend Mrs Tosin Ishola on a trip around town, to witness first hand just how inaccessible the Nigerian built-up environment is.


InCLUDEus!

HACEY; Championing the Rights of the Girl-Child


"Not only did this year’s international day of the girl-child celebration hosted by Hacey Health Initiative spotlight the importance of girl-child education and empowerment, it potentially made an advocate for girl-child education of every girl present!"


http://worldpulse.com/node/78931